Military families think their men sometimes are greater than the civilian man who dies with the choice of a life of risk.

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really no sympathy should be any greater than any other person who works a job that is full of risk and chose the route of risk that caters to the better living for others. My own job is full of risk and if I died I wouldn't expect that everyone caters or bathes Tanya in sympathy, pity or need to get a charity dinner or parades going with media events to pay for something that just is not going to change. Like the pink ribbons for breast cancer or rainbow shirts for gays. All that merchandising helps no cure or research. All the money does nothing either as the schools with the scientists or companies already have the money and that is why they already are hired working. If cancer, military or any family really wanted change in something they would fight it with the monies made to aid and pay for their own off the grid of government paid scientists, researchers, teachers, professors, lawyers and more oh my! In their own labs paid for.